In Pursuit of Wisdom

As I have mentioned Arch Bishop Desmond Tutu spoke at my graduation from Gonzaga University (May 13th, 2012). Tutu is a powerful speaker whom commands attention from audience members. Tutu himself is a petite man with the charisma liked to a Santa Claus character. Tutu speaks with purpose and is inspired by truth. On Graduation day, I was over whelmed with excitement and fear to fully hear the entirety of Tutu's speech. My mind was busy with distracted thoughts. What I heard the first time I listened to Tutu's speech was the shrill of new adventures and the journey that presents it self when faced with immediate change. I heard Tutu say that young people everywhere do amazing things. Desmond Tutu, called us "incredible creatures." What I heard on graduation day was the promise of hope and the excitement of life unfolding. 

The messages we here, we hear selectively. In our heart we may know an answer or be aware of the necessary course of action needed to fully capitalize on the joys of possibilities laid out for us. There is an ancient adverbs that states: "When the student is ready, the teacher will appear." 

I believe that we only allow our self to learn, to feel, and to push mountains when are ready to meet the challenges, and are no longer paralyzed by a fear of failure. In the pursuit of excellence, failure is eminent. Through failure we learn. Through failure we differentiate ourselves, we filter out the weak. To fail with  grace is admirable. Failure can act as a catalyst for success, as it teaches one to learn from their mistakes. 

Upon re-listening to Desmond Tutu's speech, I still hear the hope in his voice as he admires the beauty of youthful energy. Though upon re-listening I am aware of his request for us to find passion and pursue our goals with out fear or hesitation. Tutu says that none of us are accidents, even though we may appear to look so, he pleads us to dream unaffected by cynicism. There are no mistakes, no accidents. There is a gentleness to his request, just as there is a call for action, Tutu wishes us the luxury of never being: "To good to enjoy the challenges of life."  

Horoscope: May 14- 20

You know that you are loved, when your friends and family sit through the name calling of over 1000 students to see you walk across a stage to pick up a "fake" diploma and shake the hand of Thane McCulloh the president of Gonzaga University. I am absolutely exhausted from the festivities of the weekend. The enormity of the event has yet to sink in. I am proud of my self for finishing my degree, and I am excited to embark upon a life rich with milestones and amazement. I am nervous for the future, and the obligatory unknown that accompanies traveling a path less wondered. In  the words of Arch Bishop Desmond Tutu; Young people do extraordinary things. We are all capable of the extraordinary. 

With that, happy Monday! Below are your Georgia Nicols horoscopes for May 14- 20. 

(And of course happy belated Mothers Day to all those who have given life, with out you none of my dream could exist. I love you mum!)

Taurus:

You're highly energetic and ready to claim to the world "I am!" You want to do your own thing, especially in love, romance, sports and amusements. Sex is hot because your physical nature is aroused, but your self-discipline is a little slack because you don't want to do what you don't want to do. (Oh well.) You do, however, feel quite competitive but probably playfully so. Meanwhile, back in the counting house where the King is counting out his money, financial opportunities exist for you this summer. You can easily borrow money and you might need to do this because you are certainly shopping for beautiful, lavish goodies. (You do love to collect your treasures.)

Gemini:

There's good news and there's bad news. The bad news is you might be aggressive at home or with family. Your impulse to fight with others is so instinctive (especially with parents or partners), you might act downright silly. (And you're not even embarrassed!) The best way to use this energy is to tackle home renovations or move your furniture around. Fortunately, the good news is stupendous. Fair Venus in your sign (for months) makes you charming and diplomatic, especially away from home. This is a great summer to enjoy friends, take a vacation and do whatever pleases you. Soon lucky Jupiter enters your sign, bringing you fabulous good fortune until the fall of 2013. (I wanna be a Gemini!)

Cancer:

There's no question everyone around you is surprised at how aggressive you are in all your communications. Your style is to be friendly and chatty, catching up on gossip over the neighbourhood fence, right? But this summer, you stand hands on hips, feet apart, ready to say what you mean and mean what you say! (Yikes.) Of course, the upside to this (aside from the arguments) is you're beautifully prepared to defend yourself. If you soften your defiance, your ability to sell, promote, write, teach and act is fabulous. Meanwhile, Venus will soften your energy even further by giving you opportunities to discover the joy and satisfaction in charitably helping others. (It's a Mother Teresa thang.)

Leo:

Fiery Mars is a mixed blessing for you, dear Leo. It's making you spend money like it's going out of style, which (let's face it) is your style! But now you're doing it without apology. (Up at dawn waiting for the stores to open.) Actually, this is fun because you have always seen spending as a way of exercising your prerogative in life. (Partly this is because you identify strongly with what you own now. But, of course, you're not your bank account or your furniture; however, you are your car.) Ironically, the influence of Venus makes you want to socialize like mad, which spurs your drive to spend even more! Who lavishes more on their guests than you? (You're having fun, but it ain't cheap.)

Virgo:

You have never before in your lifetime felt Mars in your sign for so long. Mars rules your muscles and your blood (as well as your aggressive and sexual energy). This is why you feel so passionate! You might even literally quiver or tremble with passion. (No kidding.) Guard against coming on too strong with others or steamrolling over people. "Outta my way!" Instead, use this influence to work because your physical energy is high. You'll also benefit from outdoor exercise or working out in a gym. Meanwhile, Venus attracts romance with bosses and VIPs. You might also be asked for your creative take on things: design, layout, redecorating or PR matters. (You're so clever.)

Libra:

Things are tricky for Libra. You might feel vaguely irritated with others. ("Jerks!") You might also find you're constantly in that classic yoga position of pulling your foot out of your mouth. (Great for hip flexibility.) Be aware of your self-defeating behaviour. Instead of confronting others, confront yourself! (I like to use a mirror.) What beautifully offsets this impulse this summer is your love of adventure. You want to experience something fresh and new! You want to travel, see art exhibits and discuss profound intellectual concepts over a good wine. People who are "different" intrigue you. By all means, get outta Dodge if you can because you need a change of scenery!

Scorpio:

This Venus/Mars combo works well for you. (Did you phone in a request?) Although Mars makes you competitive, it gives you lots of energy to work co-operatively in groups. Yes, things can be touchy with friends but you're also a dynamo in classes, meetings or conferences. Everyone wants to be on your team. Do remember that you can easily achieve your goals now by working with others. Meanwhile, in another part of the forest, fair Venus sweetens your intimate personal relationships. ("Is that Opium you're wearing?") Sex goes beyond sex and becomes a vehicle for self-transformation. (This is so you.) Plus, gifts, goodies and favours from others will come your way all summer! Sweet!

Sagittarius:

Like Scorpio, you're looking pretty swell. For months fiery Mars is sitting at the top of your chart arousing your ambition. You're prepared to work hard - really hard - at whatever you want to accomplish. One caveat: You gotta be your own boss. This is great for your productivity as long as you don't threaten authority figures or co-workers. (Not really your style.) Nevertheless, avoid conflict if you can. (Anger serves no purpose other than to make everyone miserable.) Fortunately, Venus greatly ameliorates this aggression by sweetening all your relationships - love affairs, professional partnerships and even your enemies. In fact, many of you will encounter new love. (Be still my beating heart.)

Capricorn:

Your love of travel is practically insatiable now. Since last year, you've been taking off for places unknown and this travel bug is not abating. (Don't even bother to unpack.) You're attracted to creative, intellectual work more than usual and might find yourself arguing about politics, religion and racial issues. You might be equally aggressive dealing with publishing, the media, medicine and the law. This is because you identify with your beliefs! Be careful because you could end up with egg on your face. (Ketchup helps.) Fair Venus will smoothe the way with co-workers and bring you praise and possibly a raise at work. Continue to study and learn what you can. (Did you know? In one day your blood travels about 12,000 miles and more if you eat doughnuts.)

Aquarius:

Disputes about shared property, insurance matters, inheritances, taxes and debt are likely at this time. You'll be strong because you will definitely defend your turf. (Ya think?) Ironically, this same energy puts your gonads into overdrive. You feel hot and sexy! (Yes, deep down you're shallow.) This playful physical energy is fueled by fair Venus and its lengthy visit in your House of Romance. For you, this summer is all about fun, entertainment and having a good time. Love affairs, sports, vacations and playful activities with children will come first. You feel totally comfortable in your own skin.

Pisces:

Like Gemini, this Venus/Mars combo gives you good news and bad news. This unusually lengthy stay of Mars in Virgo completely opposes your sign. (Pisces and Virgo are 180 degrees.) Tres challenging! This creates unavoidable tension with partnerships and close friends. However, the upside is you will defend your own best interests and will not be disregarded or pushed around. (A healthy self-interest is a good thing.) The good news is this summer promises a warm and cozy relationship with family members. Relations with parents will be close as well. Real-estate dealings will be profitable. You'll enjoy redecorating where you live and you'll love entertaining at home.

Aries:

Here's the scoop. You're taking considerable pride in whatever you do this year. Because of this, it behooves you to find work and get down to it! You'll definitely want the credit for whatever you do because you identify with your activities now. (You're not exactly a team player at the moment.) Fortunately, fair Venus soothes your words, making your dealings with your everyday world pleasant and light. In fact, you'll be surprised to discover how much love there is in your everyday surroundings. (Gosh.) Look for ways to make money from your writing and speech. Enjoy short drives or meandering walks because your appreciation of the beauty around you is heightened.

Celebrate: Great Champagne Under $50

Since infancy I have always had an acquired and refined taste. My parents laugh at my "champagne" and caviar cravings while on a beer and ramen noodles budget. I dream of truffle risotto and saffron infused flavors warning of excess. I know one day I will be able to satiate my appetite for luxurious comforts; until then I will learn to live with grace as I embrace the best alternatives. 

While no celebration is complete with out campaign there are plenty of fabulous alternatives to Cristal  

and Dom Perignon

Best Champagne under $50

1. Perrier-Jouet, Grand Brut Champagne NV($44.99) 

The taste is fresh and lively and pairs perfectly with Sushi. 

2. Laurent-Perrier, Ultra Brut NV Champagne ($39.99)

The taste is well balanced, and bone dry. Pairs well with strawberries and fruit based salads. 

3. Ayala Brut Majeur ($30.00)

The taste is clean, bright and nicely acidic. Pair Ayala with cheese, hummus, and fruit plate. 

4. Bollinger Special Cuvee ($40.00)

The taste is broad flavored and slightly toasty. Pair this sparkling wine with rich nuts, and smoked flavors. 

5. G.H. Mumm & Cie Carte Classique Extra Dry ($39.99)

The G.H. Mumm is a rich champagne with a full bodied taste. Pair with a seared foie gras, olive tapenade, or fruit compete. 

6. Oudinot Cuvee Brut NV ($14.96)

The Oudinot has a floral aroma with a light peaches and cream flavor. Pair with dark chocolate and coffee  flavors. 

7. Gosset Brut Excellence NV ($39.99)

The Gosset has unique citrus taste that is both bright and zesty. Pair with goat cheese, beets and sweet potatoes. 

8. Moet & Chandon NV White Star ($43.99)

The Moet has an elegant  tastes with a matured aroma of fruit complimented by a hint of nut. Pairs wonderfully with portobello mushrooms and smoked salmon. 

9. Veuve Clicquot Yellow Label NV ($44.99)

The Yellow label sparkling has a fruity structure with a full body flavor. This wine pairs wonderfully with a creamy risotto or lobster. 

10.  Nicolas Feuillatte Brut ($31.50)

The Nicolas Feuillatte has a soft buttery taste with a long consistent  flavor. This wine pairs wonderfully with Camembert cheese and spaghetti squash. 

The Eve Before Commencement

Theodore Roosevelt, soldier, explored, and the 26th President of the United States once remarks that: "It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed."

Friends, teachers, and parents wish for us to have a good life. They want what is good, what is safe, and what is predictable.  A genetic flaw, in our rapid species evolution is the need to protect and cradle our  youth until old age. A mom, never stops being a mom. Our Parents; whom love unconditionally and wish us the  world of safe crosswalks, and friendly neighbors. Our parents; wish to protect us from hurt, heartache, and the scrapes of finding ones foot. As humans we find comfort in bubble-wrapped lives, if not for ourselves then at least for those we love.

Our obsession with protecting our young has already gone to such extremes of boycotting creepy crawlers and easy bake ovens.  Parent groups fought Hasbro toys for safer kid friendly alternatives. Parents protested with love, and good intentions.  While children suffer the ironic consequence of not experiencing the dangers of play.

I loved my easy bake oven-I'm sure I burnt myself half a dozen times, and know that I melted the plastic spatula beyond recognition. My parents never took away my easy bake oven nor the creepy crawler maker. In the long run the common sense I learned from baking mishaps has made me more efficient and creative in the kitchen. What was best for me, was learning to work through the consequence of "owwies."

What is best for you isn't easy, nor consequence free. What is best, (isn't necessarily good), and requires a willingness to dive deep into uncharted waters;  to learn to swim far from the shallow waters.

Teddy Roosevelt's mother dreamt of a profitable career for  her son as a doctor or lawyer. Both good careers. Teddy didn't want a good life, instead he wanted to try for the life of his dreams. On the eve of my academic completion; I pray for the courage to fight for and build the life and career that is best for me. I am strong, smart, sophisticated, and passionate woman, capable of achieving my hearts desires.